Elizabeth Baier failed to understand that even though I made the choice to walk away from my homosexuality, I never chose those same-sex attractions in the first place ("Conferences debate homosexuality," May 7). In fact, homosexuality is the result of many factors, which include family dynamics, sexual abuse and personality, but I do not believe the feelings are a choice.

The roots of same-sex attraction are complex, and those feelings often stretch back as far as a gay man or lesbian can remember, often leading them to the conclusion that they were born that way. Unfortunately, such an assumption frequently prevents those dissatisfied with their homosexuality from pursuing change, which is possible for those who are committed to the pursuit.

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